If You’re Going To Text Him… Don’t Be Boring

But then comes the constant wrestling back and forth, over-analyzing whether you should or shouldn’t contact him, what should you say to him , and yeah, that can feel as if you’re in a constant state of limbo. It can eat you up inside and drive you completely insane.

Why does it feel like a nervous, gut twisting roller coaster ride every time you want to text a guy you really like?

You might even ask your friends what they think because you can’t stop obsessing about it. And they might give you responses that range from, “Oh… don’t ever text him first…” to “If you do, wait at least 3 days!”

Now, look, I’m a nice guy. I’m not going to call your friends dumb without even meeting them, but… your friends probably don’t know what they’re talking about. Sure, their intentions are good, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t giving you destructive advice.

No one gives good advice about texting these days. It’s bullcrap. It’s almost like people 50-100 years ago didn’t even know how to text?! Get with the times, grandma!

But seriously… There are so many myths out there about the “right time” and “right way” and “right words” to text a guy that completely distort the truth and leave women totally confused.

You’re going to find out what men are specifically looking for when you text

You see it everywhere: the movies, the media, your girlfriends are all trying to give you specific advice about your situation.

Like, they’re telling you to wait X number of days, or only text him at Y time, or send him Z amount of texts before he responds, or… I ran out of letters so I can’t give you any more examples but you get what I’m saying.

That advice may or may not help you in the one specific situation it applies to, and it’s definitely not going to help you the next time you’re feeling anxious about texting a guy and don’t know what to do.

When you know the most basic, fundamental, universal rules about texting that will clear up all your frustration, anxiety, and stress about it forever.

So here’s the real talk: I’m gonna tell you, right here and right now, the raw, honest truth about texting from a guy’s perspective (stuff no guy would ever actually tell you).

There are so many myths out there about the “right time” and “right way” and “right words” to text a guy that completely distort the truth and leave women totally confused.

You’re going to find out what kind of thing is going to attract him and what kind of thing is going to turn him off .

When you get it from a guy’s perspective, you won’t have to figure out which rule to follow like “who should text who?” or “should I wait for a response?” or “why is my phone overheating and exploding?”, because you’ll just know what to do automatically. And you’ll never feel anxious about texting again.

You’ve Got To Have A Plan

So I’m going to get this out of the way right at the start: don’t text him pictures of grass growing at 30 minute intervals. That’s boring.

But what is a boring text? When a guy gets a text and looks at his phone, what’s going to make him go “ugh” in his head and ignore it?

I can hear you already. “What? Action? What does action mean? I didn’t say I was trying to turn him on yet, right? Did I accidentally agree to star in a porno again?