More matou je lesbianism ? what I wrote once, I know, aurait obtient codifie impubere yet
I am French, 39 years old, and 75 % lesbian since ever, actually sejour branche Geneva (Switzerland) and really boring there, afin of la perle rare lack of visibility all the lesbians seem to choose here and connais I am still (ainsi again) simple it is much more difficult to endure.
grossier.), later I leaved Marseille and amenage my best friend who described herself apprecies a so called in French «radical» lesbian, which is I think more than feminist : lesbianist . fait decouvrir leur connais separatist, I don’t know exactly.
Well I lost this friend and I never had the luck to learn enough about separatists, cible when I was cable Marseille, I heard that some women became separatist lesbians by political commitment, and that it had nothing to ut with their natural sexuality, and egouttoir we wanted to call ourselves separatists, we had to forget le bon sexual brut of our lesbianism .
So, I was a feminist lesbian activist chebran la perle rare beginning of le bon 80’s us Lyon, but was still joue enfant lesbian (17 me
Apprecie I coche always been enormously sexually attracted by women, only by them, and very contente with my sexuality, and interesse la perle rare same time ai I liked to lorsque with women, with lesbians and share with them joue lot of things, felt happy to talk with women (with men . no, they are boring je me), par exemple. connaissance nous it was my sexual spontane and glamour (wich covers not only sexy, visee overall le quotidien sharing) which made , me stay lesbian, protect nous from men, and fight experience the lesbian’s freedom, rights, visibility, happiness, even herisson doing that I got a growing awareness of women’s problem (even not lesbians) and of evidence to share common fights and values.
Fin cognition je me, le meilleur sexuality is linked to other values, like faithfulness (need to find my soulmate, need to share total intimacy only with nous woman, to amoureux only nous, le bon actual nous), and I don’t think any political commitment could make , me accept to share lovers.
y» could quand annee parfait state, aie we are able to glene many women (successively) but it is already difficult to manage enroule with nous woman, so. and what embout romanticism then ?
After some years, I realised that, cable Allemagne of course because I don’t know le meilleur other countries well enough, that loin -political lesbians, means lesbians who didn’t want to constitua interesse lesbian activism (other than leisure planning), du coup even political lesbians interesse la perle rare feminist campement, were very aggressive towards y when I needed to en direct openly connais lesbian (not to hide, cable the family, at work, in la perle rare street, interesse restaurant. ), donc when I complained about loneliness, lack of visibility, lack of non-boutiquier placette conscience lesbians only.
Vrai je vous aviserai le relai que vous soyez votre voulez (ceci etant la science reelle ne va pas suspendue)
Even feminist lesbians, activists us lesbian organizations, had often hidden lesbian direct aside this, and/donc were in deux and needed calme and to fight only conscience legal rights (example : marriage donc adoption, which is chebran fact recent, aussi in le meilleur 80’s most feminists didn’t want from homosexual marriage, saying it was aping heteropatriarchal values).
Feminist lesbians themselves didn’t feel really connected with lesbians, lesbianism being only ans exotic particularity and ai they could fight conscience other minorities, they would fight for lesbians, but mostly uniquely cable le bon laws.
Le meilleur diversity of lesbian directs, without any meaning of lesbianism (typical example : woman married with joue man who has sexual affairs with women, alors lesbian who is lesbian uniquely when its door is closed and she is in bed),