It might seem a little strange to be teaching how to start sexting a girl
Shouldn’t that sort of thing just happen organically? Misinterpretation isn’t the only way to playfully build sexual tension over text. Sexual innuendo (changing the meaning of what she says to make it sound sexual) is also a great tool to use in your texts to women.
Not yet :)” A playful text like this helps her to see you as a sexual being without you coming on too strong
Another easy way to casually infuse sex into your conversation is the “let’s do it” text. If she texts you something like “Want to go to a show at 6?” you can respond with “Let’s do it. Go to the show, I mean… not sex.
If you want to learn how to start sexting a girl, you need to learn to build sexual tension playfully. And while flirting is great, at a certain point you’ll have to dive in and really own and express your sexual desires.
When the moment is right — and you’ll know when you can cross this exciting line — you can and should tell her what you’re thinking, feeling, and wanting. Doing this can feel edgy for many of guys, but it’s necessary to take that risk. Otherwise, you’ll never see much – if any – change in the way you text women.
To help you take those risks, keep in mind that it’s perfectly acceptable to make mistakes. You may say something now and then that doesn’t land well (I discuss how to recover from that below). That’s to be expected to allow yourself room to slip up and don’t be too hard on yourself when you do.
And always remember, the more risks you take, the better. Your calibration will be for future texts. Plus, you never know when that risky text will be the one that sends her over the edge and really turn her on.
Want a woman to share her sexual fantasies with you? Want her to tell you all the things she imagines you doing to her? To get her to open up in this way she first needs to feel safe doing so. And the way to help her feel safe is to open up and share your own fantasies and desires first — thereby paving the way for her to join you.
It’s fun and easy and leads to a great back-and-forth exchange where you are both playful and sexual
Once the conversation has taken a more sexual turn you can begin to share the kind of dirty thoughts you have about her. Use descriptive language as you do this. Take it slow, allowing the tension to build gradually , and don’t shy away from the little details (the thoughts and feelings going on as you imagine yourself peeling her shirt off, the way you imagine her reacting, the parts of her body that draw your attention and excite you, and all the other things you imagine doing with her…) There is a classy and safe way to do this while still indulging in a sexual exchange, especially if you’re not sure how to start sexting a girl.
By going first and sharing your own sexual fantasies and desires, you show it’s safe for her to do the same. She won’t feel as timid about opening up since you were willing to be vulnerable first.
Don’t worry. As we’ve said, there may be occasions when the girl isn’t really into what you’re saying and may even become upset by it. If this happens, don’t worry. Recovering from a miscalculation like this is easy.